Hazards of being a “mature” erotic romance writer

…so since it was raining Sunday afternoon we had to take our power walk indoors at the local mall. Hubby’s glasses had gotten bent out of shape somewhat (not gonna say how) so we stopped in at Lenscrafters for an adjustment. The sweet young thing remarked on how badly out of line they were and hubby joked that he’d just have to get me to stop hitting him so much. She got them straightened out, put them back on him and told me I’d just better keep my hands off him now. I looked at her, looked at him with a smile and said “Well, not in that way.” I watched the shock register on her face and then she said “you two give me so much hope, that you’re still doing that at your age. Do you give seminars?” Hmm. We’ll have to think on that one.


Rabbit Pleasure

Sometimes we’re very serious, but we love to play, too, and it’s time for one of our sex product reviews. Hope you’ll come along for the ride!

Since it’s nearly the season to welcome the bunny rabbit into our homes, I thought it quite appropriate to recommend the rabbit vibrator to my friends and readers for your pleasure.  If you haven’t tried a rabbit you’re in for an eXperience.  Rabbits tend to be explosive in many ways.  There are so many on the market I’ll start by describing two types for you—well,  the second is only a variation on the first.

The rabbit usually consists of a rather large penis-shaped vibrator that not only vibrates at various speeds but also rotates.  What makes it a rabbit, though, are the rabbit ears attached to a second appendage that nicely graces the clitoral region when the main vibrator is inserted.  Ladies, this can be delightfully maddening.  Guys, if you love to watch your woman enjoy herself, you are in for a treat.  She may even request your assistance. 

Now if you’re ready for more stimulation, try out a three pronged rabbit. My favorite is called “Rabbit Pearl Plus” and you can read my review at the Sensual Universe website.

This one is the same as above but it has another vibrating appendage sure to send you spinning.  With the other two in their places, this one caresses the buttocks or perhaps with help from a partner can probe its way into your butt.  With three erogenous spots vibrating simultaneously you are not just building toward the big O, believe me, you are building toward a total body orgasm. 

Peter Cotton Tail never had it so great.  Try a rabbit of your choice and see how long you can keep the rabbit hopping and vice versa.  Be sure to use plenty of lube.  Have fun—Adriana will!!

Additional sites where you can find great rabbits are  and



Proud to be an Iowan

I’m speechless but I’ll try. I was not optimistic heading into yesterday’s Iowa Supreme Court marriage equality ruling but we both made plans to be at our local rally, win or lose. What a momentous day – a bold move in a long string of historic Iowa decisions for civil rights and equality.

Already there are negative voices and movements afoot to revoke these hard won rights, but there are also voices of hope. The Iowa Democratic Majority has already issued a strongly worded statement in support of the decision. Here’s a quote:

News Release

For Immediate Release: April 3, 2008

Senate Majority Leader Mike Gronstal

House Speaker Pat Murphy


Iowa continues to be a leader in guaranteeing civil rights


This is a joint statement from Iowa Senate Majority Leader Mike Gronstal and

Iowa House Speaker Pat Murphy on today’s Supreme Court decision:


“Thanks to today’s decision, Iowa continues to be a leader in guaranteeing all of our citizens’ equal rights. 


The court has ruled today that when two Iowans promise to share their lives together, state law will respect that commitment, regardless of whether the couple is gay or straight. 


“When all is said and done, we believe the only lasting question about today’s events will be why it took us so long. It is a tough question to answer because treating everyone fairly is really a matter of Iowa common sense and Iowa common decency.”


What this means, I think, is that there’s no chance of a legislative move against the decision until at least after the 2010 elections, and we’ll have our work cut out for us to continue to send a progressive and forward thinking legislature to Des Moines in that election.

You can bet we’ll be doing everything we can to help this happen. One project I’m very proud of is our participation in To Love and to Cherish, an anthology of lesbian love stories at Sapphic Planet:

Love is universal. Marriage is… not. But it should be. It is a matter of civil rights and equal protection. The writers of SapphicPlanet and loveyoudivine joined forces to bring you diverse and heartfelt stories of the many forms of lesbian love and yes… marriage.

Cover art: Lara Zielinskytoloveandtocherishthumb
Publisher: loveyoudivine
Genre: Lesbian Romance
Release: August 2009
Pages: TBD
ISBN: 978-1-60054-322-7

This project began in indignant response to the passage of Prop 8 in California and Amendment 2 in Florida, denying the civil right of marriage to same-sex couples. All proceeds will benefit Marriage Equality USA.

And of course we’ll continue our efforts to bring you exciting erotic stories with happy endings for our many Bi heroines who so deeply want it both ways.

Here’s to being part of Iowa history!


with heartfelt thanks to One Iowa and Lamda Legal

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